well i have a semi D/s rl relationship. I only say semi because there are many instances where it is not of to say yes master! however the I always give him respect etc. We talk all the time and most of the time we are relaxed with each other, but when the kiddies have gone to bed and all our work is done he puts my collar on me and then I can really be who I am. It works for us but it might not work for everyone, especially if your after 24/7