Master and I are in a 24/7 D/s relationship. He controls most aspects of my life including food and clothing We have a lot of contact with my family (parents,protective older sister, and bro in law),they all live around 5 miles away, and they are not aware of our kink. We get round this by him setting limits before we get to either my parents or sister's houses. We don't have children so that's not an issue yet.

With regard to work, as much as he would like to do some serious damage to my bullying boss, he leaves that aspect alone and is just there for me when I come home.

Again, when I am going out with friends he sets the limits before hand.

I wear a permanent discreet collar that looks like a necklace and have worn it for sometime with no issue, even with work.