He said that when she visits him she goes through his phone and his email. Actually, I really don't understand that myself because she's not going to notice that he's been calling me so often and blocking his number?

I never got to have his real phone number either. He said that he wouldn't know how to explain to someone at work about me if I called him on a business trip (where he's often around coworkers.) I offered to not call him when he was away on business trips or I mean, if he couldn't talk he could just not answer.

And even if he was concerned about me not knowing his name and age he could have told me that he couldn't give me his real name because he was protecting an ex-girlfriend. But he let me believe that was his real name for so long.

All of this stuff together just makes me really suspicious now. It makes me feel like he's really hiding from me and lying to me on purpose. I can't trust him anymore and I think that trust and honesty are very important in real life relationships and that much more important in online relationships because online you have a much easier ability to lie about things you couldn't in person.