Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
I am with jeanne regarding the fact that he is not the only man who can be your dom, and a good one at that.

I donīt believe that other woman is his "ex-girlfriend", either.

Call me cynical, but I have learned to develop a healthy mistrust toward people who give oh-so-noble reasons for not being able to tell the truth.

And much as I hate to say it: The arguments he is using on you for not being allowed to call him at work etc. are all the arguments married men use on their mistresses, in order to keep them "invisible".
There's some good but painful truths in this post. Read it again. Accents are mine.

I've seen this scenario play out time after time. I've become especially cynical toward those of my gender that all too often play similar games trying to get their little dicks wet. Keep in mind that there is a certain subset that equates "submissive" with a much easier path to getting laid.