HUGS you tight!!

Way too many time have i heard this same exact plight, alltough ussually its from the girl that has allready been dumped for another girl or the guy turned out to be married.

I am so sorry you have had to find out that this guy is a faker etc or at the very least playing you. Ive seen too many a guy string one girl along online while stringing another along in real life, (sometimes more than one and even sometimes more than one girl from the site at the same time) smh

And as others have said before me here, both girls loose in the end becuase one has her heart broken right away and the other gets the displeasure of having a less than honnorable partner who is very lickely to betray them in the future as thier dom.

You are at least fortunate enough to find out that he may not be all that and a bag of chips before actually seeing him in real life and truely making yourself vulnerable to his whims and getting even more messed up over this or worse.

Remember some of us are not so lucky, some of us had no forewarning and or barely survived or worse disapeared/ killed/ kidnapped etc due to direputable types we encounter becuase the prick that strung us along and made us fall in love and run off to meet them all ga ga in the head like was really a monster in disguise the whole time.

Personally IMHO I wouldnt bother wasting the precious gift of your submission with this guy anymore, he sounds like a player of some type and there are plenty of real dominants that have real honnor out there waiting in the ranks that will cheerish you more than they do themselves.

As they say in these parts "Girl up my sisa" I will keep you in my prayers and good luck for you, remember to allways be safe first and kinky second.