bratty sub

[thir]

hi, new here to the site and the lifestyle. i have an experienced sub, who wont shut her mouth, act feminine, talks back, and is super bratty. makes it hel to learn what i'm doing. soon as one thing works, she's off on another tangent, another mood, and i'm scratchin my head. any advice?
-M-

I also think she is testing you. I would like to add that although some Doms like this, it is not everybody's cup of tea. Not, for instance, mine. I have zero patience for that kind of behaviour! Nor is it a suitable test for whether you are a 'proper' Dom or not, it is simply a matter of taste.

If you want to keep her, I'd say listen to the good advice about 1) communication 2) Not rewarding bad behaviour 3) Make punishments real and unambiguous.

If you do not like this behaviour, tell her so, and ask her to change it. If she doesn't, find a partner you are more compatible with.