Well, I agree with everyone else, obviously. But I just want to stress a difference between "pushing" soft limits in the context of a relationship and coercing someone to overstep her boundaries. There are a lot of valid reasons to push limits (IMHO NOT in the context of a one-time scene), but there are no valid reasons to hear the following:

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... but they tell you that you should do it anyway since you're a sub. they say there really aren't limits, you should do what the dom wants, no matter how you feel about it.
"There really aren't limits?" Excuse me? And, "you should do what the dom wants, no matter how you feel about it?" People can say whatever the hell they want, speech doesn't cost a whole lot, but it doesn't make them less of an idiot.