Well my r/l is going pretty well, I have a lovely wife & some excellent friends.
My true happiness in the world of D/s has pretty much slipped away, & with it much of my interest in 'playing.' However I still have my lisa & am managing to keep going with the help of a few dear friends.
I'm also lucky to have found someone who understands my reluctance & is happy to keep things going along quietly for the present. As usual I seem to be able to find just what I need when I most need it.
Tojo