I've been burned now about twice in bdsm world, as also before I started getting on here too. I am to trusting and found out pretty much that the person had about 3 profiles with different ages and had all one would believe to be who he claimed to be but no and when it was all said and done He was gone no nothing. It makes you want to just call it done and over and stay in a hidden life let the guys that you date just think that your kinky and keep how you really feel closed up or at least it feels that way to me. I'm not feeling so great right now and will say that You just have to do what is right for you. Find the path that works for you and really really be careful because there is a lot of jerks out there.