Could not agree with you more Natalie. I delight in my submission and am not ashamed of it, but have no wish to offend anyone by it either.

In my Utopia, he would have me on his leash when it felt appropriate, but I would also be able to pursue my professional life, albeit wearing an undisguised collar. In practice we are both sure that such behaviours would be disturbing to strangers, many friends and our colleagues.

A 24/7 gorian lifestyle does not appeal to either of us - but being able to freely express - smiles contentedly at the thought.........

cariad