Quote Originally Posted by scb2164 View Post
No, I didn't tackle it like a bulldozer. She is into light spanking. I prefer a much heavier scene as either a submissive or dominant. Usually submissive. She's just not going to there.
Well, since I don't have that much experience with the scene and since handing out advice in such a delicate matter is a venture on rather thin ice, I can only suggest to try and work out a scheme with your wife, to give you the possibility to seek 'help' outside the marital cradle.

Have a talk about an eventual on-line relationship, for starters. See where that leads, both the talk and the on-line thing.

For a more in-depth chat about your 'problem', I fear I'm going to have to let more experienced folk take over...

I also wonder what you've been doing with your 'urge' so far, since you're 38 and all...

I sincerely hope for an outcome that will be satisfactory for all parties involved. Good luck scb2164


JJ