how many subs

[Archeon]

you all make excellent points, I could have posted a thank you on each response
I have put myself in a dilemma, I have come to know 2 subs very closely
if I were put in a situation of selecting one over the other I am not sure I could do it
yet I would hate to lose either of them

On the up side of this, I believe poly is a lot easier to start if both girls enter the relationship at the same time, rather than one first, then another later. If you genuinely feel poly is for you, and both the girls want it, then it may not be so bad.

Regards,

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