What I searched for and found was a submissive woman who , knew herself her wants desires , When I found her wants desires were mine I went after her , and made her mine.
that does not mean it was easy finding her, there were many whom I searched through some lost, some fake playing the part, not having a clue about submission , fire told me to go to hell the first time we met , I found that intriquing as I really wasn't playing but she had just left a bad relationship. building trust is slow many take it as a weakness in a Dom , those I passed over, I wasn't looking for a play mate I was looking for a soul mate someone to share the journey with.