help please

[singletaillover]

Hello i have just been told by my Master that Master will be seeing another slave who Master seen a few months ago to give the slave pain/pleasure/fun on the 20th of jan. Master will be staying with this slave all day, the last time that Master saw this other slave almost killed me with all the worry and fretting that i had to go through. I do trust my Master its just the jealousy that is showing as i would think that if the table was turned around she would feel the same thing as i am feeling right now. I have spoken to Master about this and here is Masters reply. Stop being jealousy slave the slave is only a play mate for your Master until Master slave joins me in Australia. Master has needs to so does this slave, slave knows herself what it feels like in not having any pain/pleasure/ fun. You are the slave that Master collared and owns and not the other slave.

[_ID_]

I am assuming your relationship is a long distance one? That he is telling you is sort of a good thing, it means his line of communication is open with you. The other side of that coin is it doesn't seem you are okay with it.

Have you and he worked out the issue of him being poly? If not, I suggest you address it now, rather than later. Just because you are collared online, doesn't removed your right to make choices about the pending move. Should you not be okay with his terms of what your life will be like when you arrive.

Perhaps negotiating a contract between the two of you would be an idea to consider. There are many out there, for all kinds of relationship types.

[fetishdj]

I agree with Dawg here... you need to establish the parameters of your poly relationship as you clearly have issues with it. Was it discussed in the initial negotiations that you would be poly? If not, you need to discuss it now and make sure your feelings on the issue are made clear.

[Flaming_Redhead]

Please be advised that my opinions are based on my interpretation of a Master/slave dynamic and as such may seem a bit harsh. Your milage may vary. Once a slave accepts a master's collar, he/she becomes owned property. The slave only has 2 options available after that, obey or leave.

Your master didn't ask you for permission to get a playmate. He told you what he's going to do. Your voice was heard and duly noted. Obey or leave.