Quote Originally Posted by Guera View Post
Who trusts: all the emphasis so far has been on the trust coming from the sub, and the dom/me simply being trustworthy. Personally, developing trust has been a HUGE process for me, developing domme. Trusting myself, trusting that I can do what I set out to do, trusting that this is not a game, trusting that my him is genuine... Its hard!

And, developing that trust is what led me to get him a collar.
It is interesting how we, as Dom/mes find it difficult to trust ourselves, is it not, Guera? For all our fire and bluster, it is absolutely fascinating at how we second guess ourselves at times, in even the most simple of circumstances where our treasured charges are concerned. I find that hesitance keeps me honest.

What of the rest of you?