Quote Originally Posted by sweetierose View Post
If there is any advice one could offer me I would gladly take it.
Yes, especially as there are a lot of new threads that are excellent examples.

So as you read about some of us who have wonderful relationships... for most of us, it took a lot of time and effort to find and make these relationships.

As you read about some of us who have had horror shows, unpleasent surprises, and are somewhat disillusioned... for most of us, we rushed in too fast or with blinders on.

Certainly not all (either way) nor only the extreme cases, there are all levels from glorious to dispicacble, and all lengths of courtships from hours to years...

But in general, take your time!!