SissySlut; I think you have got your facts a little mixed up, subs and Dom are not picked in a lottery whether male or female, it is normally a natrural accurence. A person is a sub for a multiple of reasons, but i doubt the being un-manly as you put it comes to my mind. I allowed my wife/Domme to be who she was, because at work i was master of my trade and master of my employees, to arrive home and give that up, and letting someone else take command if you like, has its own satisfaction. A person is a sub because they feel comfortable being in that position, but it does not mean that they are less manly than the body builder next door. As for female subs i would not dare to make assumptions, as they have their own reasons, and it might be better to ask them before making statements.
Regards ian 2411