thankyou all for your replies, I think it helps just knowing that I am not alone, we had a long talk about things and it seems to have helped a lot, its true what they say communication is the key, I think the best thing was knowing that he felt just as annoyed and frustrated with the situation as I was.

I'm sure it will probably still be an issue in the future, but hopefully if i continue to follow all your suggestions maybe it will lesson the impact.

^.^