Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post

Other than being just plain exciting (I am a big time humili slut) humiliation is also sometimes used as a training technique to help confer focus and trust unto one's submissive and or potential slave. By repetition in different scenarios a sub builds trust in his or her dominant, when the dominant in question doesnt force the sub to go beyound those preagreed levels. Focus is achieved as well, during humiliation play, unless a dominant is being indulgent, or simply prefers to see their sub plead and baulk at some commands, the sub eventually can learn to stop worrying about the eyes of others and focus on their dominant and the task at hand instead.
As always denuseri I find your comments insightful and instructive. I found this para particularly interesting as I think trust plays such an enormous part in all relationships and I guess, especially D/s.