Humiliation where to stop

[soft zero]

Other than being just plain exciting (I am a big time humili slut) humiliation is also sometimes used as a training technique to help confer focus and trust unto one's submissive and or potential slave. By repetition in different scenarios a sub builds trust in his or her dominant, when the dominant in question doesnt force the sub to go beyound those preagreed levels. Focus is achieved as well, during humiliation play, unless a dominant is being indulgent, or simply prefers to see their sub plead and baulk at some commands, the sub eventually can learn to stop worrying about the eyes of others and focus on their dominant and the task at hand instead.

As always denuseri I find your comments insightful and instructive. I found this para particularly interesting as I think trust plays such an enormous part in all relationships and I guess, especially D/s.

[Zenmackie]

It's probably been better expressed above, but yes, it's all about communication. You want to please your Master, of course, but he should also want your humiliation to be pleasurable for you. Make sure you report clearly to him what each experience was like for you. If he is a caring Master, he will modify future assignments accordingly, though this isn't to say he won't continue to test your boundaries. But always remember that you do have the right to say No.