denusari - I just have to say that, after reading several of your posts, I truly enjoy how wise and gentle your words are. Whomever you're with is a tremendously lucky person!
I must admit that I never thought about the fact that head-shaving would be considered a punishment. I've hung around so many lesbians and punkers (and lesbian punkers) with little to no hair that it seems quite normal to me. In fact, I had used it as an empowering act of defiance on more than one occasion.
So I apologize for my ignorance and for shooting [my mouth off] from the hip (as I far too often do.) In the future, I will try to be more thoughtful (as you are) before I speak. Perhaps, one day, I too will be a wise and gentle person.
skye67 - It sounds like you've made up your mind then. I can certainly relate to you when you speak of that little voice. I'm still not sure why I let Daddy treat me the way he does, except for the fact that I adore the way he does it.
I also hope (only because I don't pray, so hope is the best I can do) that you will both have a long & fruitful relationship together!