Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post
Open and honest comunication between one's dominant and oneself can be dificult at times, but is paramont to the growth of the relationship.

Fear of the opinion of ones peers is a very difficult thing to overcome while on a journey of submission.

In some circles shaving the head is considerd a punishment.

For others it can be a highly erotic experience.

I wish you the best of luck and hope that if he decides to insist upon it ( since it appears as if he is vacilating) and you comply that you will not see it as a punnishment but an opportunity to make a testament of your love for him with the gesture.

Perhaps you will be allowed to be shaved by his hands.

If my owner asked me to cut or shave my hair (for the time being he has prefered it to be long) I would beg such a privelage from him most ernestly.

I shall pray that regardless of the outcome (shaved or not) that the two of you will have a long and fruitful relationship together.
denusari - I just have to say that, after reading several of your posts, I truly enjoy how wise and gentle your words are. Whomever you're with is a tremendously lucky person!

I must admit that I never thought about the fact that head-shaving would be considered a punishment. I've hung around so many lesbians and punkers (and lesbian punkers) with little to no hair that it seems quite normal to me. In fact, I had used it as an empowering act of defiance on more than one occasion.

So I apologize for my ignorance and for shooting [my mouth off] from the hip (as I far too often do.) In the future, I will try to be more thoughtful (as you are) before I speak. Perhaps, one day, I too will be a wise and gentle person.

Quote Originally Posted by skye67 View Post
He will do the shaving, that is his wish as well as tradition.

I dont see it as a punishment at all, just sometimes i have that little voice inside my head asking wtf....why are you doing this? when i posted this i had one of those moments.
skye67 - It sounds like you've made up your mind then. I can certainly relate to you when you speak of that little voice. I'm still not sure why I let Daddy treat me the way he does, except for the fact that I adore the way he does it.

I also hope (only because I don't pray, so hope is the best I can do) that you will both have a long & fruitful relationship together!