As I am sure your well aware Miner just becuase one says they are "24/7" in one's profile it doesnt mean one is in a total power exchange relationship. One refers to duration, the other to extent. (Which btw I checked but is beside the point, no 24/7 refference is made in their profiles, perhaps you should be "re-reading things") And even if they said they were 24/7 and TPE, it doesnt mean they have been at this for years or that the level of dominion that exists between them is all encompassing in scope of actual power excersised or unconditional.
Nor does it establish many of the other parameters between them with each other in real life.
Hence why I asked for further information from them and provided some situational advice depending on the circimstances that they may find helpful.
Perhaps we are miscomunicating. If so I apologize, as its not my intent. You seem to be projecting that they are some kind of real life M/s couple in a TPE where she should be held to some kind of extreme and or abject kind of servitude and should be punnished so severely through fear becuase she full well knew better as if she had went out and had dinner with another dominant, or stole a credit card and maxed it out in a "fit" or ran over the nieghbors dog and blamed her dominant. Is that what you are saying?
All I am sugesting is that any a lie about playing with ones self (which btw is very common for new submissives to do as well as those resenting a dominant who neglects their needs) that was later conffessed to by the subs own voilition isnt sufficient cuase for such extreme measures.
Even in a well established real life Gorean or Old School based 24/7 TPE I wouldnt expect more than a beating and a few stern words as a reminder if I slipped up one night and played some naughty finger games with my Owner's property (my Owner's "Slut get right stick" isnt to be triffeled with, once as a demonstration was enough for me), as the knowledge of my own slip in submission to his dominion would be more than enough of a punnishment in and of itself.
Especially if it wasn't a repetative infraction, which if it is, then its a sign of some other deeper issue.
I would put forth the postulation that more information is nessesary to advise them any furrther, and that all the paramaters of their specfic situation should be examined in detail before jumping to conclussions as to their arrangment whatever it may be.