My Owner is on active duty and sometimes he cant let me know anything when they deploy, but if its within his power to do so, he does. He understands what kind of anguish it can put me through.

Unfortunately some people seem to think that just becuase they call themselves a dominant that they may ignore or disregard such common courtesy and dont bother letting those who care about them know that they are allright.

At other times Ive seen this kind of thing done (especially by online dominants) as some kind of test or way of attempting to train a girl to not be so needy for contact etc, which is really sad especially if not informed before hand, becuase all it does is drive a wedge and show how much they don't care.

Unfortunately all one can do is go about their business when this happens and wait.

I shall pray that you find enough faith and solace in waiting patiently in this my sister and that your dominant isnt neglecting you on purpose or anything.

I do know that dwelling on it only makes it worse.