Probably a little late here, but in this thread and another I'm seeing a real difference of opinion regarding sexual control of a sub. I won't pretend to be neutral about it either. But what I'd like to say is, what's important in a relationship is what the partners agree is important, and what's trivial is what the partners agree is trivial. If your relationship is such that "touching master's pussy" isn't a big deal, then it isn't a big deal and no one should tell you otherwise. But if you're in a relationship where that really is his property, and it's off-limits to the sub to use it without his permission, then if she disobeys that really is a big deal and I'm not sure it's helpful for others to say differently. In my relationship, for example, we don't use a lot of protocol. But if another sub posted because she had breached a protocol that was important in her relationship, I wouldn't just tell her not to worry because protocol is trivial. In her relationship, it's not trivial.