What if the sub feels naughty and wants to dominate you?

[thir]

I guess it must be a very common newb doubt. Might have been discussed in some thread before. But I was curious about such a scenario. What is the best option, if you really love her and want to see her happy, but really hate to be tied up?

A not uncommon problem. If you could manage, get over a hurdle, I'd say give it a chance. But I do not think anyone should do anything that really feels wrong. It would be like trying to give something you don't have to give.

Why not let her play with another?