Doh Im in the wrong section again (but feel free to ignore my input or tell me to butt out)

as you go through learning about things, try thinking about them and keep a note of them and how you react, so that you have an idea of the types of activites you like and you dont.

(its just as important to know what you dont like as much as what you do!)

when youre with a Dom, dont be afraid to try things (as long as they appeal on some level), but also dont be afraid to say stop!

Often for a Dom its a real turn on to find out what your turn ons are, so dont be shy about sharing your fantasies, and ideas. personally Im a fan of receiving hot text messages from my subby about her latest ideas they fun and short and quick and can edge around the shyness aspects.

hope that helps.

U.