This suggestion is for both you and he.

Blog or Journal about your experiences, and share them. Record your expectations before the scene, and your thoughts during the scene, and then a few days later how you feel. Also record your views, your questions, your fears and joys.

After filling out the checklist, exchange it, talk about it. Then about a month to three months later do it again. See how your views change, or don't change.

As you grow in your role, and in life. You will be able to reflect back and see where you were and how you've changed. Knowing this is helpful to your own education, and to learn yourself.

Don't know where to blog? They have one here. They have one at Fet Life, and one on mydungeonspace. Pick one.