Quote Originally Posted by JimmyJump View Post
I think that a lot of the fear of doing things 'wrong' comes from the fact that usually, people want to take on a role and (literally) act according to what they think that role entices.

Well, I'm not an experienced DOM, but I never act. I'm me. Always.

So, my little addition to the subject is: in the first place and foremost, be yourself. Don't put up an act, especially if you're not sure to be able to carry the role through to the end...


JJ
I've realized recently that I have been trying to act to fit a role and not allowing the role of Master and DOM fit to who I am as an individual. It goes without saying that it was very hard and stressful to keep this up.

I'll take your advice and act as I feel and not as I "should".