Wow. I hadn't checked this in awhile because of the lack of response and then suddenly you all chime in Thank you. But as there are so many responses I will just touch on a few.

Why is He asking through you?

He asked through me for humiliation and because He doesn't have an account on here. This is "my" place and He only infringes when He feels it can be useful.


is your relationship with your Sir o/l or r/l as if it is was o/l // Maybe you punishment should be being treated like a human being on a "pet day"...

Our relationship is is r/l and although we occassionally engage in some puppy play, "pet" is just His name for me, not as in an animal.

im intrigued, does this mean you as the submissive decide each day what role you want to play?

Yes, I decide everyday if I want to be pet or girlfriend. Although sometimes He will let me know His feelings on what role I choose.

If this is right, and you generally have a vanilla relationship in which you indicate a desire for a temporary power exchange by engaging in some ritual, then I'd say, ditch the punishment. First of all, if this happened three weeks ago and he hasn't punished you yet, then move on. If you've reopened this post because something similar has happened again, though, then I would really say that you seem to be conflicted about this play. You're the one who chooses when it's going to happen, you appear to want it, so why are you undermining the power exchange that you've signed on for?

When I choose my role for the day, I know that it is going to be that way until I wake up the next morning. I cannot change my decision. So although it's temporary, it does not change from hour to hour. We have moved on from that incident but Sir is always looking for new ideas for punishment (as well as reward). As for why I undermine it ... the reasons are many and diverse.