A couple of issues raised by the post from Cleo671. As the post resonnates earlier comments made, perhaps adressing them again is called for.

I don't know your age
Are we using the plural here or just the singular second person tense? If the latter, let's say in October I turned double nickels. That much said, it should also be added that yes, the issue of cosmetics in the past has been of a concern, and that females known have also worked hard at maintaining their physical, as well as, mental "looks".

Speaking of which, is it my bias or Cleo671's who begins by stating that she is a "female". Does this matter? Is it really that much more important to be a female? Much easier to not wear a bag over one's head so as to not chase members of the opposite sex away? Do females care less about their appearance, or have greater standards than their opposite gender? Are they as a whole more mature and wise?

If the above questions appear a bit naive, please pardon. It's just that as stated previously here attempts to meet bdsm lifestylers through entry level munches were a tad disappointing in the titillating department. Distinctions over which sex appeared the superior were purely secondary to just finding anyone of any sex attractive.