Ozme,

I see your point. However, it wasn't a demand. I simply asked and accepted whatever he chose to do. My point was that we weren't playing, we weren't in a scene, he wasn't being dominant. We are still in the middle of figuring out each other and by asking for something that I needed at that moment, I was letting him know more about me.

And no, words would not have made the night easier and my submission more fulfilling.