I am married to my submissive, and just like any relationship, we had some rough times. Though I must say I am as happy now as I have ever been in my life.
Congrats to you two for your upcomming marriage. If you wish, I can direct you to a place that will make collars that can be worn 24/7, even around nilla family members. We used it, and the collar is of good quality. If you wish this information, contact me via PM as I am nearly certian it will not meet the link rules for the site.
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