Quote Originally Posted by ditzyblondegirl View Post
Hi Ladies, I am 38 and recently a o/l friend has introduced me to BDSM. He has recently become my Dom.

What makes a good submissive??

Tonight he asked me how much I weigh.. and I said no. I weigh too much.. lol then he said are you telling me no? and I said oh fine.. then i told him how much I weigh. I think I made a mistake.. I should have takin my punishment. I'm a curvy girl that is insecure around white males... now black males drool all over me. what makes my insecurity even worse is my Dom. is really hot!! and I would do just about anything to please him.
In my opinion a good submissive is one who finds that they want to please another with their service, their actions.

also just my opinion...there is no such thing as ..too old, too fat, not submissive enough...etc.

Ok so you arent a "runway model" not many people are...and if your dom cant see the beauty that you are ...then he misses out. There are plenty of people in the world who will love you for who you are ...and not your measurements. There is more to you then just how much you weigh or how big your breasts are. Please believe that.