Ditzyblondegirl I am 50, I am fat although Ive lost 40 pounds,I have saggy bits and my tits are going south fast and I am short and no oil painting I assure you. Yet I have a Mr who is 37 and says he doesnt care because I have other qualities he loves and I am in his words a" natural sub". Not that I know much but I am willing to please. So its quite honestly horses for courses.