I kinda of fell into it. A wonderful girl named Jewlie after a high school dance and a silk tie. Just two kids playing around, as I tied up her hands. A few days later a shy smile and she said "tie me up again."Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
For me it's the willingness of the sub to give herself over to me. Submission is the ultimate way of saying "I trust you."What was its appeal to you?
I'm not sure. It always felt natural to me.What misconceptions did you have of BDSM before you began that have been changed now?
[quote]What do you hope to learn/teach/pass on to others about BDSM? [/auote]
An ex-girlfriend/sub told me once that she learned to trust men again.
I am just an explorer.Do you consider yourself a "lifestyler" or just an occasional player?
That for a little while I can be somebody I'm not. That I can let the walls of society drop for a little while and "buy a slave" or "beat her because I feel like it."What do you enjoy about being dominant/submissive?
The fact that she trusts me enough to allow these things to happen.
I am in an open relationship with someone who is not submissive (in fact she would make a great Domme) but has no interest in the lifestyle.What do you like about your dominant/submissive(s), if you have one (them)?
So I'm looking.