Hi folks, as a sub male i think that my need for humiliation is about getting some balance in my life. At work i am a manager and leader with a team who enjoy working for me and i am pleasent and helpful. But in my sex life i crave s&m and part of the thrill is being humiliated, but in certain ways.

What i have noticed is that my craving for humiliation has increased as my ability to be beaten has reduced as i cant be marked.

I see humiliation as another outlet for my submission.

James