i have spent many years reading stories from the library, and only very recently registered for chat. I think many men are more interested in pictures, stories and cyber than in chatting to discuss s&m.
I have been submissive all my life, for many years only to women, and most of whom I had to pay for thier attention.
I have been fortuante to have had a couple of girlfriends dominate me, but both only did it for my pleasure and neither were dommes, but i did live for 8 years with a pro dominatrix and she really enjoyed her work.
I am now bisexual in s&m and this has really opened me to new areas of submission.
With regard to chat and cyber I was very good at impersonating a female sub and had lots of fun and many hours with an erection teasing myself for as long as possible, one handed typing gets better with practice.
Hope everyone enjoys their submission and domination.
Deepest respects
James