How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle?
Ah childhood play, 'who'sgoing to be the one to be tied up and held captive' Little Nicelips was always the first to volunteer!

What was its appeal to you?
For me, it has to be the totaly defenceless position I'm in. I'm no longer a person of free will but an object that belongs to my Master and his to use as he wishes.

What misconceptions did you have of BDSM before you began that have been changed now?
The age range, I thought that the majority would be in a Mid 30 range. How very wrong I was.

What do you hope to learn/teach/pass on to others about BDSM?
Learn: How far I can extend my pain threashold, I want to learn how to make the expierence last longer.
Teach: I'm in no position to teach anyone in this field.
Pass on: Ditto above, but in life, I'd like to pass on tolerance to all.

Do you consider yourself a "lifestyler" or just an occasional player? Unfortunately, I'm a slave with no Master, so I guess I must class myself as an occasional player with ambitions to be a lifestyler! (this is not an advertisment!)

What do you enjoy about being dominant/submissive? Submissive....I really enjoy being controlled and being told what to do. It's nice to make no decisions and just enjoy life with no responsibilities.
Well said Aletta, that is it in a nut shell!

What do you like about your dominant/submissive(s), if you have one (them)?
I always find this a catch 22 situation, I got such a high out of his pleasure and he got such pleasure out of my high.