Heh. Have y'all seen the episode of family guy where Lois and Peter discuss drugs while getting ready for "bed"? They both out on their BDSM gear like changing into their PJs.
On topic, i think it's like things used to be with homosexuality...my late aunt was a lesbian, who lost her son to the state because of her sexual orientation. She was taken to doctors...one of which stated that the only "cure" for her was to cut off her head. The subject used to be the butt of jokes on movies and tv, and still is in many cases. My dad wrote her off as a sick feak, and her girlfriend living with her was deemed her "room mate". i always thought it was sad that they couldn't afford a two bedroom house and had to share a bed. Then i found out the truth and couldn't figure out why everyone hid that fact from me. The two men sharing a one bedroom house down the street suddenly made more sense.
We are the next group of sickos who will end up being accepted as having a chemical imbalance, or birth defect to the brain...
Until then, we are the butt of jokes and crazy inuendo.