The whole thing does not sit well with me. I have held off on commenting on this because I was not sure what to say. All I have to offer is this:


I will echo what the others have said and that is your dom should be seeking the punishment for you. Also, being locked in the basement and tied to the bed unsupervised with him not by your side the whole time is risky at best.

I have done some very risky play with my Master, but if he even thought about doing that to me I would be done with the whole thing.

Anyway, that is my 2 cents. Far be it for me or anyone else to tell you how to play. Just be sure that you are safe at ALL times. I think that some time to think about what YOU really want is in order. I kinda get the feeling that there is a lot between the lines that you are not saying. I might be way off here, just a gut feeling. Best of luck to you.