Quote Originally Posted by Count_DUQ
I posted something similar with more details under Fantasy but want to know the best way people can think of doing a PLAY RAPE scene?
Count,

I couldn't find your initial post, so I'm not certain what you're considering, but I can give you an example from the proposed victim's point of view. I once almost played out the "rape" scene with someone I met online. I had communicated with a lot of guys before I found one who shared fantasies that paralleled mine. That was important, because it ensures you are both going to get a bit of what you want. Then, after we had communicated for some time, I broached the subject of being his victim. We were clear about what my limits were, but I also left him plenty of room for creativity, and included some things I wasn't super comfortable with, but he wanted (like anal sex) so I would not know what was coming, and would have to endure things I might not otherwise do. I insisted on being completely helpless once the fun began--in fact, I told him that if I were able to escape, it was over.

I think he was adequately protected from any accusations of rape by our long record of emails, and by the fact that I was going to initiate my captivity by handcuffing myself to make my capture inevitable. Once he had me subdued, it was completely up to him how things progressed. I didn't want to be able to stop the events--that was just how I wanted it. He was actually more concerned about this than I--the feeling of helplessness had to be complete.

In the end, I chickened out and called it off, in part because a relationship I was in was moving in a favorable direction, and I knew that once I had this encounter, my life would change. I still wonder about how it would have gone, but it will be a long time before I find another "stranger" who meshes with me so well.

If you're interested in our plan outline, I can provide more details.

Plan carefully, communicate clearly, then go for it!

Stephanie