delia

I understand what you are saying. But I also agree with Oz. People DO change, but their core persona does not. Yes one can learn more... broaden ones horizon, try new things, evolve into someone more sophisticated, more in tune....but the core person still remains...We all know childhood friends who were..schmucks... Then they grew up... got the big house, the fancy car, the trapments of middle class/upper middle class.... but they remain.. the same schmucks they were when you knew em as a kid.


If a Dom lies and cheats and you as a sub KNOW that, is it the Doms fault that the relationship failed? Or is it the subs? Who had a problem with liars and cheats, and should have walked on day one?

-Odysseus