Quote Originally Posted by skye67 View Post
God, i hate it when he does that! I tend to be harsher on myself than he would be, especially if i really fucked up.
That is why I no longer let subs choose for themselves. Too harsh, too cruel, too self damaging. Learned that long ago now.

Besides... my personal disappointment is often punishment enough. Letting it show is worse. And if something physical is required, it's required because I need something. Why would I let her choose my appeasement?