that is i think the main reason He keeps me using the upper and lower case for M/s, W/we do text quite a bit being on different work schedules and all and He wants me to go through the extra effort. i have a blackberry and i have to type and backspace to create an i rather than an I. W/we have also started a notebook for me to write down when i do something wrong so that when W/we do have time to be alone there is a reminder as to why i am in trouble. When He is on prednisone, corporal punishment isn't exactly the best idea...that good ol roid rage! W/we are looking forward to some modifications for O/our bedroom so that He can have His floggers and the like hanging for easy selection.
W/we have been working on the time alone together thing fetish, i think you are right as when W/we didn't live together W/we did as much as W/we could to have that and now it has been supplanted by work and kids as W/we have allowed it.
i am so looking forward to His recovery ( He is asthmatic with heart issues and is not recovering from an upper respiratory infection, 3rd cycle of prednisone and antibiotics) as His difficulty breathing and the medications have of course effected Him and the household. He is truly a "Head of Household" kind of man and His well-being or lack there of does work its way through us all. thanks fetish!