I agree completely, delia. Maybe the rules for vanilla relationships and BDSM relationships are different, but he was in a BDSM relationship and broke BDSM rule #1: trust. That equals cheating, so if I was her, he'd be gone.

However I'm a dominant so I'm assertive and nobody crosses me, so I can see how that might be more difficult for a sub to leave. But frankly, if I were a sub and my entire life revolved around trusting my Master, I'd want a Master who deserved my trust.

And this guy clearly does not.