No... it's unlikely you'll have to train your own dominant. We are everywhere... you just don't realize it.

But denu is right, a munch is a great place to start.

Either proclaim where you are (in general) by setting your location, (kind of like "build it and and we will come", but we need to know where...)

or go to a site more dedicated to connecting locals with locals. You can search FetLife for your area and nearby cities to see just how many people are near you.