Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Another perspective is not that you need a strict master, but that you need a master who prefers a consensual non-consenter. Someone who will enjoy capturing you and physically subduing you over and over again, someone who needs and wants every moment to be a struggle because it's the way he best feeds his need to express his power.

But that's not the role of a slave. That's not even a "typical" submissive (who serves and takes pleasure in serving.) If you enjoy that, then style yourself the consumate victim...

...No one need take offense at the use of "typical", I enquoted it to mean it to be "by my definition" and not necessarily anyone elses.

This resonates deeply with me. I had not viewed this concept clearly before and it is begging for closer inspection (for me personally). Thank you for the enlightenment.