I find the concept an incredible turn on but...

Be careful and remember that the "accusation" of rape can be just as devastating to your life whether it is justified or not.

There is a current and recent case going on here in the US where a guy went online posing as his ex and trying to arrange her own rape "fantasy". He wound up with two guys who were up for it and one actually showed up at the woman's house. Because he was her ex he knew enough details about her to be very convincing online.

I know you said you have talked to her on the phone, but keep in mind that it would ne just as easy for a woman to do the same thing as in the case I just cited.

If I were you, I'd make sure I had all the bases covered first...then I'd give her a night to remember!

Have fun