heh. I think the answer is simple. if it bothers HIM, then it is an issue. if not, then it is fun.
My girl knows when to play by the (read : MY) rules- and when to be a brat. like she always says- " i can do what ever i want- if i want my ass beat."
I think every answer here is valid. but then again, my girl would have plenty of new stripes if she tried "rules lawyering"