Humiliation where to stop

[BryansGrrrl]

This is a fascinating conversation.

I am not so much into humiliation play. I don't mind if He calls me slut as long as it is "MY slut" and not "A slut". There is a distinction. I can be whatever He wants me to be, as long as I am His.

That said, there are a few words / phrases from prior abuse that I would not react well to, and we've discussed those.

I enjoy it when He holds my neck in public places. When He pulls my hair in public places. We have a discreet collar which I enjoy wearing and wish I could wear more often.

I wouldn't mind if He showed more dominance over me in public (leashing me, etc.) if it were in front of others into this lifestyle who would understand. Strangers are also not as threatening. My problems come when it is front of people who know me, but do not share the kink. My being lessened in the eyes of family or friends is not acceptable. But, He understands and agrees with this. He is not trying to take away my personal power, quite the contrary.

So, public humiliation isn't something we'd do often, if at all. And with both of us not really into it to begin with, it'd be more like "embarrassment" than "humiliation" anyway.

[My Masters Toy]

I think as a sub there is no humiliation. How far are you willing to go to please your Master? How much are you willing to give your Master? How bad do you want to be your Masters slave? All of that is answered by you volunteering to be the slave. My Master knows the limitations and that she has none. I am there to serve her and if for some reason she is not satisfied she chains me down and has her way with me. Punishment is our communication tool and as a result I the slave will always learn the right way. I don't always do everything right, I am not like my Master, I am expected to screw up just not twice. All in all I agree with everyone above.

[Ozme52]

I think as a sub there is no humiliation. How far are you willing to go to please your Master? How much are you willing to give your Master? How bad do you want to be your Masters slave? All of that is answered by you volunteering to be the slave. My Master knows the limitations and that she has none. I am there to serve her and if for some reason she is not satisfied she chains me down and has her way with me. Punishment is our communication tool and as a result I the slave will always learn the right way. I don't always do everything right, I am not like my Master, I am expected to screw up just not twice. All in all I agree with everyone above.

So nothing that would turn your face red?
Anything goes?

Turn you over her knee and receive a bare-assed spanking?
In front of a sibling?
Co-workers?
Parents?
Your own children? (if you have them?)
It's all good?