This is a fascinating conversation.

I am not so much into humiliation play. I don't mind if He calls me slut as long as it is "MY slut" and not "A slut". There is a distinction. I can be whatever He wants me to be, as long as I am His.

That said, there are a few words / phrases from prior abuse that I would not react well to, and we've discussed those.

I enjoy it when He holds my neck in public places. When He pulls my hair in public places. We have a discreet collar which I enjoy wearing and wish I could wear more often.

I wouldn't mind if He showed more dominance over me in public (leashing me, etc.) if it were in front of others into this lifestyle who would understand. Strangers are also not as threatening. My problems come when it is front of people who know me, but do not share the kink. My being lessened in the eyes of family or friends is not acceptable. But, He understands and agrees with this. He is not trying to take away my personal power, quite the contrary.

So, public humiliation isn't something we'd do often, if at all. And with both of us not really into it to begin with, it'd be more like "embarrassment" than "humiliation" anyway.