Myths about Slaves.

[denuseri]

So are you saying to be a real life slave all one has to do is log on to a computer and roleplay being one or to follow commands over the internet without ever being in the presence of anyone but their household cat?

Like I said before, what we do is more about where the mind is than about how you kneel, or how a whip feels. Feeling a whip doesn't make you any more of a slave or submissive than does feeling the control of your Dominant or Master.

Being in a state of true helplessness and at the complete and utter mercy of another person however does. As stated earlier..to focus only on the mental aspects of the art is to ignore half of what it is all about. It is in the union of the two where one gets the full effect both physically and mentally.

If you believe that you must feel the constraint of rope to be a real life slave then you have much more to learn.

Like I said before its not about the rope or the spankings or the kneeling...its that you had the courage to place yourself at someone elses mercy for real in person that makes all the difference where as that is conserned.

Real trust, requires real deeds, in real time to develope.

The real life slave, makes a real leap of faith each time they put themselves into the actual hands of another. They actually surrender themselves in real life in a way that long distance submission doesnt allow for.